Jacob.

Malachi 1:2, 3
"I have loved you, " says the LORD. But you ask, "How have You loved us?" "Was not Esau Jacob's brother?" declares the LORD. "Yet Jacob I have loved, . . .

hated.

Genesis 29:31, 33
When the LORD saw that Leah was unloved, He opened her womb; but Rachel was barren. . . .

Deuteronomy 21:15
If a man has two wives, one beloved and the other unloved, and both bear him sons, but the unloved wife has the firstborn son,

Proverbs 13:24
He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

Matthew 10:37
Anyone who loves his father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me;

Luke 14:26
"If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be My disciple.

John 12:25
Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.